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Three Smart Phones and the Sounds of Silence

Cell_phones_imageLast Tuesday morning a couple walked into the restaurant where Herb and I were having coffee. They sat down at a nearby table; the waitress took their order, the man pulled out his cell phone and began texting—maybe emailing. For the next five minutes, she sat silent as stone, staring into the middle distance.

After a few more minutes, a second phone in his pocket rang. He took it out, spoke briefly to the caller and then returned to the  business of the first phone.

Finally, she took her phone from her bag and started scrolling. I kept my eye on them, fascinated by a real-life example of what I have been reading about in a compelling and disturbing book, Reclaiming Conversation: the Importance of Talk in the Digital Age by Sherry Turkel.(More about this book later.)

After twenty minutes, we finished our coffee and left. Not a word had been exchanged between them. I don’t know how two people who are so uninterested in each other could maintain a relationship or a marriage for long. As someone who has remained happily married for a long, looong time, I am here to tell you this is not the way you do it.

2 thoughts on “Three Smart Phones and the Sounds of Silence

  1. You know what they say… “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” hmmmm Don’t think that woman’s heart was growing any fonder.

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